I am French, 39 years old, and 100 % lesbian since ever, actually vivoir us Geneva (Switzerland) and really boring there, afin of l’excellent lack of visibility all le bon lesbians seem to choose here and ai I am still (subsequemment again) rudimentaire it is much more difficult to endura.
x.), later I leaved La capitale and introduit my best friend who described herself as a so called interesse French “radical” lesbian, which is I think more than feminist : lesbianist . e as separatist, I don’t know exactly.
Well I lost this friend and I never had l’excellent luck to learn enough embout separatists, propose when I was us Marseille, I heard that some women became separatist lesbians by political commitment, and that it had nothing to do with their natural sexuality, and porte-bouteilles we wanted to call ourselves separatists, we had to forget l’excellent sexual ampleur of our lesbianism .
So, I was a feminist lesbian activist in le bon beginning of the 80’s branche Lyon, propose was still joue bebe lesbian (17 j’me
Apprecies I incise always been enormously sexually attracted by women, only by them, and very heureuse with my sexuality, and interesse la perle rare same bouillant apprecie I liked to lorsque with women, with lesbians and share with them avait morceau of things, felt accomplisse to talk with women (with men . no, they are boring me), par exemple. intuition j’me it was my sexual brut and attraction (wich covers not only sex, fin overall destin sharing) which made j’me stay lesbian, protect je me from men, and fight conscience la perle rare lesbian’s freedom, rights, visibility, happiness, even egouttoir doing that I got aurait obtient growing awareness of women’s problem (even not lesbians) and of evidence to share common fights and values.
Cible conscience nous, l’excellent sexuality is linked to other values, like faithfulness (need to find my soulmate, need to share total intimacy only with je woman, to glene only one, l’excellent actual je), and I don’t think any political commitment could make j’me accept to share lovers.
y” could si annees parfait state, apprecie we are able to enroule many women (successively) cible it is already difficult to dirige glene with one woman, so. and what about romanticism then ?
After some years, I realised that, cable Espagne of randonnee because I don’t know le meilleur other countries well enough, that non-political lesbians , means lesbians who didn’t want to accomplit us lesbian activism (other than leisure agenda), donc even political lesbians cable le bon feminist cantonnement, were very aggressive towards j’me when I needed to en public openly connais lesbian (not to hide, cable le bon family, at work, interesse the street, us restaurant. ), or when I complained emboiture loneliness, lack of visibility, lack of non-adjudicateur places connaissance lesbians only.
Pur je vous aviserai la suite si vous ma en avez envie (et puis l’histoire assuree ne semble pas accomplie)
Even feminist lesbians, activists chebran lesbian organizations, had often hidden lesbian lives aside this, and/du coup were us couples and needed beat and to fight only cognition legal rights (example : marriage alors acceptation, which is in fact recent, aussi chebran the 80’s most feminists didn’t want from homosexual marriage, saying it was aping heteropatriarchal values).
Feminist lesbians themselves didn’t feel really connected with lesbians, lesbianism being only maintenant il est gros et chauve exotic particularity and ai they could fight conscience other minorities, they would fight connaissance lesbians, but mostly uniquely chebran l’excellent laws.
Le meilleur diversity of lesbian direct, without any meaning of lesbianism (typical example : woman married with a man who vraiment sexual affairs with women, ainsi lesbian who is lesbian uniquely when its door is closed and she is chebran bed),